Great Weekend

What a great weekend Cody and I had. Started with Friday night. Cody has made some new friend at his new job so some of them wanted to got out. So we went to our first Club, which was called 1402. Cody got drunk (no thanks for the new friends lol). He had a bad hang over the next day. Saturday we left early to go see Jon, Ashley, Shawn and Landon. We had missed them so very much. We havent see them since June 7th. So it was a long time coming. We got to their new home and went for a tour of the new house. Shawn showed us the rooms and his room. What a great tour guide he was. It was so nice to see them. Even nicer to see JOn for a little before he had to head to work. Cody, Ashley, Shawn and Landon all went for lunch. What a great time. Then we went to Target. Love that store, so so much better then Wal-Mart. Then we got to come back to their house to relax. Cody put together Ashley's and Jon's new grill and Ashley made dinner. Cody also had blown up their new pool. Later Saturday night Cody and Jon went out to have a little brother bonding time. Ashley and I had a get time bonding as well. I have learned from that night "What Happens at Ashley's house stays at Ashley's House". We had such a great time. On Sunday, all 6 of us went for lunch. Then we all went to see Pap (Jon and Cody's grandfather). It was so nice to visit with him. Then we heading to Petsmart because Jon and Ashley and the boys are getting a new puppy in 2 weeks. So we were getting things for the new puppy. Then we head back to Jon and Ashley's for dinner. Cody grill Hot dogs and hambugers. While Ashley and I made the mac 'n cheese. Jon gave the boys a bath. We had a great dinner. Landon went to bed then and we got to relax a little with Jon, Ashley, and Shawn before we headed back home. We had such a great time with all of them we didnt want to leave. Thank you for allowing us to come visit and spend time with you all. Here are some great pictures of the weekend.

Shawn with his watering can

Landon in the pool.

The greatest sister-in-law. Love you Ashley

Shawn watering the plants. What a big boy he is.

Jon and Landon in the pool.
I think Landon splashed a little. lol

Shawn in the shopping cart at Petsmart.

Landon at lunch on Saturday.
I think he liked his watermelon

Landon in ths shopping cart at
Petsmart on Sunday

Shawn trying to get my camera on Saturday
while we were on our way to get lunch

There is Landon what a cutie

Me and Cody on Sunday.
I love him to death

I wanted to add in a couple of things. I have made my blog private because I no longer want some people to have the ablity to view my blog. Even though I dont think they had looked all that often but still. I had also wanted to say, I am so glad i had taken the chance to write Ashley and Jon the e-mail that i did back in October. I took the time to e-mail them then so taht Cody could have a relationship with his brother, sister-in-law and nephews. I believe in the love of the family. Even though his parents are not showing that right now, at least he knows he has Jon, Ashley, Shawn, Landon, Pap, and my family. I had also e-mailed them because i wanted to know their side of the story with what happen to them and Marta and Jim. I know what I have seen go on with my relationship with Cody's parents. I had enough. I have an even more of enough with them the last couple of months. They have taken a lot away from me, Jon, Ashley, Cody, Shawn and Landon. If it wasnt for Cody's parents we would have had a good relationship with Shawn and Landon a lot and i mean a lot sooner. I hope the boys know how much their Aunt Lynda and Uncle Cody love them and how much they mean to us. Jon and Ashley, the both of you mean a lot to us as well. We love you both so much. Hope nothing ever comes between us again. For everyone else please do not sure what i write in my blogs to anyones else. Thank you

Nosy People

I must say I am so bothered tonight. There are people who now have a problem with me. Have a problem with Cody's brother and sister-in-law. This makes me mad because we did nothing wrong. Its only because we see who those people really are and arent going to take their crap anymore. The person thinks i have only started having a problem with them since I starting talking to Ashley. Well your wrong. I started talking to Jon and Ashley because i wanted to know their side of the story and to see if things matched up and so Cody can have a brother relationship with his brother. And a relationship with his nephews because of you he had missed out on a lot. Well I haven't see Jon, Ashley or the boys for a little while and i am going crazy. I cant believe you live 12 hours away and when your up here not want to spend time with them. They are such wonderful people and have been there for me a lot within this almost past year. You say you want people to leave you alone. Then why are you checking blogs, and calling. Now i am not the only one saying that. I am learning new things. You want your son to come visit you and say nothing about the both of us coming to visit. Do you think he will go down with out me? Do you think i will let him go alone so that way you can either try to break us up or talk him in to moving down there? Well guess what you moved 12 hours away not him. He didnt chose to move that far away. He was so depressed because he feels like his parents didnt want to be around him. YOu say what happens between him and his parents are none of my business well guess what him and i are together. When he is hurt i am hurt. When he is upset, i am upset. If your done with us then be done with us. I am pretty much at that point right now. What you did in the car at the hospital pretty much did it for me. So just stop being nosy. Jon and Ashley got smart and blocked you and your friends from seeing their blog. In due time you will be blocked from mine too. You want us out of your life well your getting it. Maybe one day you will relized what your missing out on, or your mistakes. Just hope it wouldnt be too late. And in some cases you might be already to late.