Friday, February 26, 2010

Special Times

So this past weekend was a great one. Cody and I took a trip to go see Jon and Ashley and our nephews. We are so close to them. The one night we were there Cody was holding Landon and i was standing right next to them. I was trying to get Landon to pull on Cody's goti but that wasnt working. So instead I was showing Landon to tickle it. Shortly after Landon started tickling his Uncle Cody, he said tickle tickle in the cutest voice. Cant wait til he starts talking more. We went down for a visit because Jon's birthday was on Tuesday. Since we could be out for his birthday we decided to still go out for the two days before it. We had a good visit with them.

Now on to a side note. Jon wasnt so happy on his birthday because the person who gave birth to him couldnt even call him or send a card. Yes that person had ways of getting the address but chose to do nothing. That person has chose to have nothing to do with Jon, Ashley, Shawn, or Landon anymore. Well you are missing out on two wonderful grandchildren. At least Ashley and I have proof of everything that was said. It is good to know that no matter what happens Jon, Ashley, Shawn, Landon, Cody and I are sticking together. Ashley and Jon, Cody and I love you very much. Nothing is going to change that. We love how close we are. We will only become closer and stronger people. Jon know that you have a family and that family is Cody, me, your neighbors, you beautiful boys and loving wife and friends. It is said how some people have turned people against the four of us. But those people who no longer want anything to do with Cody, Jon, Ashley and me well that is your lost. You have no clue what you missing out on. We are not going to hurt by what any of you have done. It is time to forget and move on.

2 comments:

Ashley Rawlings said...

From Jon:

That was really beautiful and sweet of you. I'm glad you got to hear Landon talk because it's really rare, but becoming less rare. I'm glad that Cody & I are getting so close. I wish you and Ashley would get further apart (wink wink nudge nudge) :) As for my mother, the truth can be blinding and stupefying. She's not worth wasting any more time on. So we look forward to your next visit and love you very much!
-Jon

Ashley Rawlings said...

Awww, I loved what you wrote. We enjoy (all of us) your visits to much! We love knowing that the boys have family on Jon's side (they have Jon's dad and mom in Idaho, and Pap too.) We love seeing how close our sons are with two of the most important people in our lives.

Jon's mother will have to live with this. A person with no heart or conscience will believe her own lies and be happy and rejoice in hurting others (she's already stated how happy she is about everything.) That takes a certain kind of evil. Taking pleasure in hurting your son, especially after he tries to forgive and work things out with someone who continues to hurt him. Maybe one day she'll see what she threw away... but both guys have said it won't happen.

We love you, and hopefully this will all be past us. The guys will never stop hurting, but hopefully time will help them... and them being close as brothers.